Keeping my mind stayed on Jesus!

Hello everyone! I am learning that by keeping our lives busy with the things of God (reading the bible, praying, watching sermons) is what will keep our minds focused. I made a personal vow to God that from here on out I would not reach out to any man. I stated in my update post that I have been praying to God that He would keep me hidden.... now the challenge was in what do I do in the moments when I want to reach out to a guy.. Well it dawned on me that prayer is way more effective than a phone call. So if I happen to get the urge to call someone I'll say a prayer for them. I had to come to terms with the fact that if I am on a mans mind then whoever it is will call me or text... if not I'm obviously not that important to him. Ladies, we were created to be the helper so its natural for a woman to want to throw out hints or "help the man see that were the one" but let me serve you notice today that the man God has for you will be in tune with what God is saying, and he will go above and beyond to receive the favor that you will bring to his life. The bible says, "He who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord." God does not need your help, and neither does the man that He has for you. be patient! after all "patience is a virtue.".. Love you Guys! be blessed. Taira:)